Our book
Conflict is inevitable. Falling out of love is not.
The book version of what we teach. The same framework our intensive couples learn — distilled into a how-to blueprint you can read on a plane.
Paperback & Kindle on Amazon
By Jess Worthington & Lindley Gentile
A how-to blueprint for fighting well.
Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but it doesn’t have to drain your energy or your love. Most couples aren’t broken — they’re unskilled. This book is the skill.
Drawing on 25 years of combined practice with high-achieving couples, we lay out the WWC method (Witness · Witness · Collaborate) — a structured way to fight that ends with information instead of injury. The same framework we teach in our 8-week intensive, distilled into a blueprint you can read in a weekend and use on Monday.
The goal isn’t fewer fights. It’s better fights. Ones that turn a recurring blow-up into a one-time conversation. Ones that bring you back to the person you chose.
Order on Amazon
Both formats sold through Amazon — opens in a new tab. ASIN B0DLNPDC18.
What’s inside
The full method, on the page.
If you’re not ready for the intensive — or you want to see how we work before you book a consult — read the book first. It’s the same method, in your hands.
The WWC method
Witness · Witness · Collaborate. The three-step sequence that ends fights with information instead of injury.
Multiple realities
Why your partner remembers the fight differently — and why both of you are right. The Elephant.
Old scripts, new ones
If you keep ending up in the same fight, you're running an old script. We show you how to write a new one.
Repair on purpose
The repair sequence — how to come back from a hard moment so it builds the relationship instead of eroding it.
The exit ramps
When to pause, when to step away, and how to come back without losing the thread.
Practice, not performance
Why 'fighting better' is a skill you drill, not a vibe you feel. The exercises that build the muscle.
From the book
“The goal isn’t to win. It’s to understand the part of the elephant your partner is holding.”
From chapter 3 · The WWC Method
Want a taste first?
Get the Fighting Blueprint — free.
A 1-page cheat sheet of the WWC method with the exact phrases for each step. Print it. Put it on your fridge. Use it the next time things start to go sideways. Drop your email and we’ll send it.
After the book
Ready for the full intensive?
The book gives you the framework. The intensive is the practice — eight weeks, two coaches, real-time access between sessions. For couples who’ve read the book and want to live it.