Programs

One method. Two ways in.

Both programs teach the same skills, in the same order. The difference is pace, format, and how much of us you get. We don’t do weekly therapy: every program is structured, time-bound, and built for couples who want to move.

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A three-month program

Married, Better.

Marriage is a skill. Get better at it.

For the couple who built a pretty damn good life and somehow lost each other inside of it. You love each other, but marriage has become a lot of work and not nearly enough us. Both of you, 3 months, alongside other couples doing the same work.

8-module video curriculum.
Weekly coaching for men and women.
Live Office Hours.
Practical tools and exercises.
Private community for men and women who are doing the work alongside one another.
Access to us while you put it into practice.

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Our flagship

The 8-Week Intensive

Built around one couple. Yours.

Our full concierge program. All eight competencies, several sessions a week, individual and joint work, and both of us a phone call away in between. For couples who want it fixed now, not someday.

Each partner: an hour a week one-on-one with Lindley, and ninety minutes a week together with Jess.
Real-time access to both coaches between sessions, by phone or video.
Weekly assignments and a customized roadmap through all eight competencies.
Check-ins at 3, 6, 9 and 12 months after you finish.

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See the eight competencies

Side by side.

: Married, Better.; The 8-Week Intensive
Format: Married, Better.An 8-module course you practice, with weekly group coaching, live office hours and a private community.; The 8-Week IntensivePrivate coaching built around one couple, with both of us.
Length: Married, Better.3 months.; The 8-Week Intensive8 weeks, with check-ins for a year after.
Who’s in the room: Married, Better.Other couples doing the same work. Men and women coach in separate spaces.; The 8-Week IntensiveJust the two of you, and us.
Between sessions: Married, Better.Bring what comes up to the weekly coaching and office hours.; The 8-Week IntensiveCall or message us while it’s happening.
How it starts: Married, Better.A call with us, to talk it through and see if it’s a good fit for you.; The 8-Week IntensiveA 30-minute call, to talk it through and see if it’s the right fit for you.
Price: Married, Better.We’ll talk through it on the call. One payment per couple for the whole program.; The 8-Week IntensiveWe’ll talk through it on the call.

Both are coaching, not therapy. We’re licensed marriage and family therapists by training; what we offer here is skills, structure, honesty and access, not medical or mental-health care. In a crisis, call or text 988, or 911.

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The assessment tells you what you do when things get hard, and which program fits. Or talk to us and we’ll tell you straight.

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